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When you start looking into Hitooshi, the first thing you hit is often a surprisingly basic question: "Am I even eligible for this?"

Where you live, your age, what documents you need... Online articles are full of outdated information, and the official answers are scattered across several pages.

In this article, as someone who has actually used Hitooshi, I'll give you everything you need to judge "can I use Hitooshi?" on a single page!

Every claim here is backed by official primary sources (the Specified Commercial Transactions Act disclosure, the Terms of Service, and the official FAQ). Still at the "what even is Hitooshi?" stage? Then my big-picture guide to the service is the smoother place to start.

They're spelled out as "service provision conditions" in the official Specified Commercial Transactions Act disclosure. In summary:

Note: this is as of August 2026. The conditions may change, so double-check the official site before applying.

If you seem to clear all five, all that's left is the flow: apply → fill in the pre-interview questionnaire and submit documents → Zoom interview → screening. I've covered what the screening involves and how to pass it in my screening article.

By the way, income and education are not part of these "conditions." They do appear among the items reviewed during screening, so if that worries you, the screening article covers it too.

Now let's unpack each condition using the primary sources.

This is the most common question. As of August 2026, the service area covers these 17 prefectures (sometimes counted as "1 metropolis, 2 urban prefectures, and 14 prefectures" in Japanese sources):

The source is the service provision conditions in the Specified Commercial Transactions Act disclosure. It's defined at the prefecture level, so there's no city-level restriction like "this city is excluded."

By the way, everything on Hitooshi — from the planner interview to meeting your matches — happens online via Zoom (official FAQ).

"If it's fully online, why is there an area restriction at all?!" — that was my reaction too.

As I understand it, it's because the matching system needs to introduce you to people you can realistically meet in person after the first online meeting. Online is for the process and the first encounter, not the relationship itself.

The reason online information is so inconsistent is that the area has expanded in stages. Here's the timeline:

(Sources: the Kansai/Tokai expansion release and the northern Kanto expansion release; the 2021 launch timing comes from media coverage at the time)

For its first few years the service covered greater Tokyo only — even the Kansai expansion release describes the coverage up to that point as "Tokyo, Saitama, Chiba, and Kanagawa." Social media from those days still holds posts from people who gave up on joining simply because they lived outside the area.

Compared to those days, the coverage has grown more than fourfold, from 4 prefectures to 17. What surprised me while researching: some guide articles updated in 2026 still say "greater Tokyo only." Area information goes stale fast — always verify against a dated primary source.

For the cities that come up most often in searches:

• Osaka, Kyoto, Kobe: yes (since January 2024)
• Nagoya: yes (since the 2024 Tokai expansion)
• Fukuoka, Sapporo, Sendai, Hiroshima, etc.: not covered as of August 2026

If you're outside the area, your options are to wait or to mention an upcoming move into a covered prefecture and ask. Given that 13 prefectures were added in 2024 alone, I personally suspect the other major cities are a matter of time.

If you have a move planned, the surest route is to bring it up honestly at the free consultation (via the official LINE) before applying.

One more honest note: I couldn't find any official wording on how "residence" is judged in detail (whether it's based on your registered address), nor any provision about nationality. If only your workplace is inside the area, or you're a foreign national, the free consultation is the place to confirm directly.

Both the Specified Commercial Transactions Act disclosure and the Terms of Service state them clearly:

• Men: 20 to under 46 (i.e., 20–45)
• Women: 20 to under 40 (i.e., 20–39)

And here's the biggest finding of this research — the disclosure page continues with this sentence:

Note that this condition is a requirement at the time of member registration, and reaching the specified age while your membership remains valid does not constitute grounds for termination of membership.

(From the Specified Commercial Transactions Act disclosure, translated)

In other words, the age limit is a requirement at sign-up time: a man who joins at 45 and turns 46 during his membership won't be removed for it. That matters a lot if you're near the upper limit, yet I couldn't find a single guide article that mentions it.

Conversely, I found no exception for people already over the limit at sign-up. It's safest to assume you're out of scope in that case.

One more age-related note: there are periods when a sign-up fee discount for women 29 and under is advertised. Campaigns rotate, so check the official site or LINE for the latest.

By the way, if you're curious about the actual age range and income levels of active members, I've laid those out in my article on what the members are really like.

This is another common misunderstanding. The document listed on the disclosure page as proof of eligibility is a photo ID, explicitly limited to a driver's license or passport (the Safety Initiatives page lists the same two types).

Your single status is confirmed via Hitooshi's own written pledge of singlehood, not the official certificate you'd get from a city office. If you were bracing yourself for the paperwork ritual of collecting residence certificates and singlehood certificates, you can relax here.

Note that the sister service, Minimal Marriage Agency (an IBJ member agency), does require official documents such as a certificate of singlehood. The light paperwork is a distinctive feature of Hitooshi proper.

For the full list of documents you don't need and the practical submission steps, see the required-documents section of my first interview article. For how the screening proceeds after you submit, see my screening article.

The disclosure page lists the payment methods as "credit card payment / bank transfer." So even if you'd rather not use a card, bank transfer is an option.

The billing timing is also spelled out on the same page:

• First payment: the sign-up fee and monthly fee are charged when you pass the screening
• After that: auto-renewal, charged 30 days after the previous billing date

The charge starts not when you apply but "when you pass the screening" — a sequence worth remembering for peace of mind.

Since it auto-renews every 30 days, you need to speak up yourself when you want to stop. I covered how to quit and the deadline rules in my hands-on withdrawal article, so check that if the exit is on your mind.

For total cost simulations, see my pricing article.

The one contract topic nobody was covering: cooling-off. The disclosure page states the conditions:

If the contract period of your plan exceeds two months and the total payment exceeds 50,000 yen, you may cancel the contract unconditionally, regardless of reason, within 8 days including the day you receive the copy of the contract document, by written notice or electronic record (email to the designated address).

(From the Specified Commercial Transactions Act disclosure, translated)

Breaking that down:

• Eligible: contracts longer than 2 months with total payments over 50,000 yen
• Deadline: 8 days, counting the day you receive your copy of the contract document
• Method: written notice or email (no reason needed, unconditional)

Hitooshi's standard contract runs 90 days (i.e., longer than 2 months), and with the sign-up fee plus monthly fees, the total payment over the contract period exceeds 50,000 yen. In other words, a standard sign-up can be read as qualifying for cooling-off in principle — so if you have instant regret right after applying, remember this 8-day rule.

Even if you don't qualify or the 8 days have passed, you can still withdraw by telling your matching planner. The concrete steps are in the withdrawal article mentioned above.

Being honest about what I found: there is no provision about rejoining after withdrawal in the official Terms of Service or FAQ. It's neither prohibited nor guaranteed.

That said, there is a real-world precedent. When I withdrew, the message from the Hitooshi office stated that rejoining is possible, with two conditions: a nomination fee applies if you want the same planner again, and pricing follows the current rates at the time you rejoin. I covered that exchange in my hands-on withdrawal article — along with the "pause membership" option, which is worth knowing if you're still on the fence about quitting entirely.

Since there's no written rule in the terms, the conditions could change depending on when you ask. If you're considering a comeback, confirm the latest conditions directly via the official LINE or the free consultation.

As for "what if I fail the screening" — the official FAQ says you can reapply after at least three months. I cover that in my screening article.

Here's the eligibility checklist from this article:

• The service area is 17 prefectures — 7 in Kanto, 6 in Kansai, 4 in Tokai (as of August 2026, no city-level restrictions)
• Fukuoka, Sapporo, and others aren't covered yet, but the 2024 pace of expansion (13 prefectures added) is promising
• Ages: men 20–45, women 20–39. It's a sign-up-time requirement, so passing the limit during membership won't get you removed
• Photo ID: limited to a driver's license or passport. No official certificate of singlehood needed
• Payment: credit card or bank transfer, billed on a 30-day cycle starting when you pass the screening
• Qualifying contracts can be cancelled via cooling-off (8 days, in writing or by email)

If you seem to clear everything, the next step is the free consultation via the official LINE. There's no obligation to join, so gray-zone situations around area or age (like an upcoming move) are exactly what you should bring up there.

If you decide to join, a referral code gets you 5,000 yen off the sign-up fee. Official campaigns sometimes run in parallel, so I recommend checking the latest offers and whether they can be combined via the official LINE before applying ☺️

1. Apply via the official website or official LINE
2. When asked "How did you hear about Hitooshi?", select "Referred by an acquaintance"
3. Enter the invitation code below

Referral code: A2R7FE3K

▼ Sign up here

https://hito-oshi.com/?ref=shoukai-app

This article is based on my own experience using Hitooshi, verified against the following official sources (as of August 2026). Areas, conditions, and campaigns may change, so always check the latest official information before applying.

• Specified Commercial Transactions Act disclosure | Hitooshi (service conditions, areas, payment, cooling-off)
• Terms of Service | Hitooshi (membership prerequisites)
• Hitooshi official site / FAQ / Safety Initiatives (online completion, documents)
• Parasol Inc. press releases on PR TIMES (area expansion history: Kansai/Tokai / northern Kanto)

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